Purchase English Videos

Training videos, to complement the book are available for purchase by those who confirm they are mental health professionals. Pseudonyms are used in the introductions of the videos below. Each training video is subtitled and punctuated with commentary noting interventions, steps and stages and other therapeutic processes. Along with the purchase of each training video is a pdf introducing the video and an annotated transcript.

Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Videos

  1. Stage 1 EFT – Ted and Jed

    A Stage 1 session of a gay couple illustrates elements of the first change event of EFT – de-escalation.

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  2. Stage 2 EFT – Ben and Meg

    An EFT Stage 2 session, of a couple with a more withdrawn female partner and a more pursuing male partner, demonstrates the consolidation of withdrawer re-engagement change event, and the third change event of EFT – known as blamer softening.

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  3. Stage 2 EFT – Robert and Marsha

    See the EFT Tango in action as the therapist consolidates de-escalation and choreographs withdrawer re-engagement.

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3 EFCT Video Streaming Bundle

$120

Individual Video Streaming Access

Video 1

$49

Video 2

$49

Video 3

$49

Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Videos

  1. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Video: Adam

    Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Video 1 is a session with Adam (pseudonym), a survivor of a random attack several decades earlier. As we follow his emotion from anger, hatred, and vengefulness he accesses fears of avoiding his emotional depths. Finally, deep loss and sadness associated with his trauma emerge.

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  2. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Video: Monique

    The session is with a young woman stuck in a shell of lethargy. Her mother passed away five years earlier and her primary strategy for coping is to suppress her emotions. She has lost a sense of self and of her own independence.

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  3. Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Video: Jane

    An emotionally focused individual therapy (EFIT) session illustrates the attachment-based EFT model as applied to individual concerns. In this video I work with a 36 year-old woman, I call “Jane.” Jane wants to stop her addictive cycles.

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3 EFIT Video Streaming Bundle

$120

Individual Video Streaming Access

Video 1

$49

Video 2

$49

Video 3

$49

Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Course of Therapy (11 hours)

  1. EFIT Course – Video 1

    In Session 1 (hours 1 and 2) we explore the key issues of an early EFIT session.

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  2. EFIT Course – Video 2

    In Session 2 (hours 3 and 4) we follow her pattern of emotion regulation that is part of her anxiety and sadness – sensing judgement from others – and getting annoyed with them for judging her.

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  3. EFIT Course – Video 3

    In Session 3 (hours 5 and 6) I do a lot of EFT Tango Moves 1 and 2, assembling and deepening emotion around her compulsion to clean.

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  4. EFIT Course – Video 4

    In Session 4 (hours 7 and 8) The session has primarily Tango Moves 1, 3, and 4, where we explore her experience as a young girl in an encounter with an imagined other.

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  5. EFIT Course – Video 5

    Much of this session is integrating and consolidating the work thus far with EFT Tango Move 5.

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  6. EFIT Course – Video 6

    This final session provides an example of Stage 2 reprocessing of emotional experience – leading to reshaping attachment security and shifting internal working models of self and other.

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EFIT Course - 6 Videos, 11 Hours

$189